How I Found My Soulmate // Relationship Goals: In Real Life (Part 1) // Pastor Michael Todd

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February 15, 2026

This series has the power to change every relationship you’ve had, have now, and will ever have. In Week 1 of Relationship Goals: In Real Life, Pastor Michael Todd reminds us that the goal isn’t just chemistry—it’s healthy relationships, and healthy relationships start with healthy people. Pastor Mike unpacks the four foundational needs we all carry: to be seen, soothed, secure, and safe, and challenges us to examine our soul health. God is your soulmate—your spouse is your soul match. When you stop expecting people to fill a place only God can occupy, you make room for relationships that are whole, healed, and built to last. Culture has a lot to say about love, but this series injects God’s perspective into what culture lacks wisdom on. This message challenges us to ask the hard questions: Is your soul healthy? Are your thoughts healthy when no one else is around? Would you marry you? We pray this message and series gives you the clarity and confidence that you need to win in relationships! Scripture References Matthew 6:9-10 ESV 2 Peter 1:3 NLT 3 John 1:2 NJKV Psalm 19:7 NASB Psalm 25:12-13 NASB Psalms 23:1-3 NASB Join Transformation Church for our 10AM Sunday experience and our 6AM Prayer service online and in-person in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Plug into community, engage in live worship with Transformation Worship, & hear a powerful word from God. ABOUT US We Exist to REPRESENT God to the lost & found for Transformation in Christ. This is the vision of Transformation Church, led by Pastor Michael Todd & based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. GIVE To support this ministry & help us continue to reach people all around the world: https://transformchurch.us/give/ STAY CONNECTED - Email Newsletter: https://qrco.de/beHPyX - Website: https://transformchurch.us/ - Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/wearetransformation - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wearetransformation/ - TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@transformationchurch NEXT STEPS - Have you made the decision to follow Jes