This One Question Could Reshape Every Relationship You Have

What’s stopping you from loving like Jesus? In this powerful message, Pastor Brennon challenges us to tear off the invisible “lids” we place on love—comfort, selfishness, shallow definitions—and choose a courageous, Christ-like love that puts others first. Discover how real love transforms relationships, communities, and your walk with God. ABOUT CROSSLIFE CHURCH CrossLife is a dynamic group of people of all ages who are seeking to become passionate followers of Jesus Christ in a challenging and ever-changing world. With three locations across the Orlando, Florida area, we'd love to welcome you on a Sunday! Find locations, service times, information about our ministries, and more about CrossLife Church at https://crosslifechurch.com/. CONNECT WITH US Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CrossLifeFL Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/crosslifefl/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@CrossLifeChurchFL Have a question? We'd love to help! Contact us using this form and a member of our team will gladly get in touch with you: https://crosslifechurch.com/contact. #AgapeLove #LoveLikeJesus #WisdomMatters #ChristianRelationships #BiblicalLove #PutOthersFirst #StrongerMarriage #GrowSpiritually #LiveWithPurpose TIMESTAMPS 0:00 Jesus didn’t say be nice 0:40 A life-changing question 1:43 Wisdom shapes relationships 3:32 The question: Will you put others first? 4:11 Jesus’ command to love 5:12 Why we struggle to love like Jesus 6:17 What’s limiting your love? 7:53 Lid #1: Shallow definitions of love 10:01 Love is more than feelings 11:57 Agape vs agapeo love 13:20 Agape is based on character 14:56 Lid #2: Comfort over commitment 16:44 Costly love transforms 19:03 The friends who tore through the roof 21:26 Lid #3: Activity over intimacy 23:47 Outward love starts with inner change 25:07 What real love looks like (1 Corinthians 13) 26:38 How do we live this love out? 27:20 Agapeo is a verb, not a feeling 29:20 Will you love people more than yourself? 30:51 Be brave with your lo