Trophies, Triggers & Trauma: What’s Really Hurting Your Marriage

They say opposites attract—but what happens when your differences start to divide you? In this message, special guests Jimmy and Irene Rollins are sharing how two equals one in marriage, and the equation you need for all your relationships. Want to get practical? Check out these resources, including book recommendations, how to honor others, and more: https://cf.church/featuredresources 𝙉𝙚𝙭𝙩 𝙎𝙩𝙚𝙥𝙨 🙏 Looking for prayer? https://cf.church/prayer ​​ 🎉 Did you accept Jesus today? https://cf.church/yes ​​ 👥 Find your community: https://cf.church/starthere 📅 See what’s coming up: https://cf.church/info First time here? Welcome to Christ Fellowship! We know you want to get the most out of life—but it’s hard when it feels overwhelming, unpredictable, or complicated. But it doesn’t have to be that way. For the past 40 years, we’ve helped thousands of people just like you find community, break free from the pain of their past, thrive in their marriage, become better parents, experience financial freedom, and learn how to make a difference. Our Sunday services, resources, and programs for all ages throughout the week are designed to help you know God personally and live the life you were created for. 00:00 – Marriage Is Complicated (And So Are You) 01:20 – Why You Keep Attracting the Same Person 02:45 – The Inside Job: A Story from Foot Locker 04:00 – Blaming the Outside for What’s Broken Inside 06:00 – Nesting Dolls and Unhealed Childhood Wounds 08:15 – Irene’s Story: Trauma, Codependency & Addiction 10:20 – Triggers Aren’t About Your Spouse 12:00 – What’s Inside of You Gets Multiplied 13:30 – Fractures vs. Fruitfulness in Marriage 15:15 – Wholeness Is Greater Than Oneness 17:00 – You Can't Get Whole Alone—Why You Need Community 19:10 – Single? Here's Why Wholeness Starts Now 20:55 – What’s It Like to Be on the Other Side of Me? 23:30 – Mirror the Moment, Don’t Project It 25:20 – Toothpaste, Triggers & What's Already Inside You 26:50 – Measure the Em